Reunite With an Ex...
Similar to bereavement in many ways, such a traumatic time is almost unbearable. For example, when someone who we are close to dies, we have to cope with no longer having someone in our lives that were there with us every day and with whom our life revolved around. When someone we are close to runs off with another, it is the same. Unlike breavement though, there may be a chance to reunite with an ex. There are many things you can do. Don't hide awayThe worst thing you can do is hide away. There will be a long period of time when you won't feel like seeing anyone or going out. That's OK. Spend some time alone or in the comfort of a close friend or family member. But don't leave it too long. One thing you must do is start to live your life again as soon as possible. Show the person who has gone that you love life, and that you enjoy life. By doing this, you are lighting a light within you, that all will see. Your ex might soon start to realise what they are missing! Visualise your perfect happy lifeEveryday, spend some time meditating on your perfect happy life. Go to a quiet place and close your eyes. Use your imagination to visualise your life. What you are doing, where you are, and who you are with. Show yourself happy, attractive and confident - with the person you want to be with. Do this every day. Think positivelyIt will be hard, but try to think positively. Positive visualisation will help with this, and you really need to force yourself to do it. Start by focussing on your own qualities. Think of something you have been proud of in the past. Why were you proud of yourself? What qualities have you that meant you could do such a thing, believe in such a thing, or think the way you do? Focus on othersAnother thing that will help is to focus on others as much as you can. Although you may feel that you are the only one who has suffered so much, other have gone through the same heartache. And there are always other people who need help, comfort and compassion. You are uniquely placed to offer this kind of help, exactly because of your own emotional experience. Do something newThis is the start of a new life for you, not the end of life as you knew it! Think of now as a new beginning, NOT the end of something. To re-enforce this, start something new. You could volunteer for something. The beauty of this is that it combines doing something new with focussing on others. You could take on a night class, start a new hobby, or do some sports. Why not start a journal and write about your feelings and experiences while you are emotional and sensitive? It could turn out to be a best seller! Fighting against the negative pallWhen we break up, there are a thousand emotions swirling around and within us. We are sad and unhappy, perhaps we feel guilt too. Anguish and pain fill our thoughts. Fear follows us - fear for the future, fear of being alone and the fear of unhappiness and neglect. We feel ashamed too. Perhaps we feel that in the eyes of others we will appear a failure, or someone not worthy of love. We can feel embarrassed that we have got ourselves in this situation. Perhaps we missed something and now we feel foolish. All these negative emotions will have a profound effect on our prospects for the now, and for the future. Such negativity can seep into our Aura, and draw us into a dark cloud. Like attracts like, so there is a danger that this negativity will cause us to attract negative things. We'll miss opportunities, we'll lose the ability to see people for who they are. We must break this negative pall, and the best way to do it is with a powerful Magic Spell. Things you can doYou should try to do all you can to help you reunite. It's a good idea to consider a Relationship Reading. This will help answer questions about why the breakup happened, and what the other person is thinking now. These questions, and others, can answered with a Relationship Reading Reunite with an Ex Spell CastingThere is no better way than Spell Casting to manifest your reunion. You can cast a spell yourself. If you are confident, and have some experience. Have a look at my DIY Spell you can cast: Reunite Love Spell If you prefer, I can Cast a Spell for you. I am a professional Spell Caster and can expertly Cast this Spell for you. Please go to my Reunite with an Ex Love Spell page.
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When our relationship breaks down, or who we thought was our soul mate leaves, it can be the most painful time of our life.
