Long Distance Relationship
Having a Long Distance Relationship
This Long Distance Relationship page is part of my Relationships series...
Relationships that have to suffer long periods of separation causing lovers, partners, and spouses to be deprived of each other's company for weeks, months or possibly years can work, but they need a lot of extra
effort and some planning. The most successful long distance
relationships have a plan to manage the distance.
No one would
purposefully choose to be in a long distance relationship, but
circumstances, such as geographical location and work commitments, can keep
The phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder"
can be true in some circumstances, but equally the saying "out of sight,
out of mind" could also be true in some relationships where distance
keeps partners apart.
Why are You Apart?
There might be many different reasons why a relationship is conducted
over long distances. Two of the most common are where college lovers
graduate and move back to their home town, and relationships started
over the internet.
Another circumstance, is where one partner has to move away for work or schooling.
If you're the one in a long distance relationship that goes away for
work or for college, you have the advantage of experiencing perhaps a
new town and new people. The disadvantages, of course, are missing your
friends, family and home life. And although there may be many new
experiences, you are unable to share them with your partner. People away
from home often find their emotions swing between highs and lows.
Left at Home
If you are the one who's staying at home while your lover goes away for
work or college, then you have the advantage of the closeness and
support of friends, family and home life. The disadvantage of this is
that you may feel abandoned and trapped. With far fewer new experiences
on offer for you, you may feel bored, lonely and neglected.
Honesty, Trust and Respect
100% honest and not lying is crucial to a healthy long distance
relationship. Be honest and share your feelings about the separation -
both the positives and the negatives. This will give you the opportunity
to really understand each other and give the support and reassurance
you both need.
If you feel you can’t trust your partner, than you
don’t have a good relationship and a long distance relationship cannot
work for you. Being apart like this will only fuel mistrust and
The key to making a long distance relationship work is to communicate
honestly and openly about how you feel. You may feel resentment about
the circumstances that cause your separation but you must try not to
transfer this resentment to your partner.
By openly talking
about your feelings and about your resentment at the situation rather
than at each other you can focus on looking forward to the time when you
are next together.
Live Your Life
Living separate lives at a distance doesn’t mean your life is missing anything.
positive benefit of a long distance relationship is that it forces you
to have a life of your own. By actively pursuing your own interests and
learning more about yourself, you will bring more into the relationship,
leading to a richer understanding of both yourself and your partner.
When you Get Together
You might build up unrealistic and romantic notions of how wonderful
your time together will be when you get together, however briefly it
might be. However, sometimes the reality often doesn't match up to what
Some couples feel awkward as if they are greeting a
stranger. Others feel disappointed and frustrated when things aren't as
magical as they'd hoped.
Also, there is the constant thing at
the back of the mind that you will have to part again, as one of you
goes off to work, college, or their home town.
Be prepared for this and speak with your partner beforehand about it.
- Keep in contact with each other regularly, at least
daily if possible
- Do not be afraid to say how you’re truly feeling
instead of putting a brave face on it.
- If you’re feeling sad and lonely
tell your partner and ask them how are they feeling.
- Open and clear
communication is very important in any relationship.
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remain faithful, loving and loyal to only you, then a Commitment Spell
is just what you need.
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